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[oceantheorem]

I'm a perpetual disaster. And I think I might be incapable of falling in love again. I still love people I loved before Jamie, but in the year and a half since we broke up, I haven't been able to find any new love, romantic or otherwise. The loving part of my heart has shut down. If I want love I have to reach all the way back to before college.... How do I fix that? I tried with Nick and the experiment was an utter failure.
I think we broke up yesterday. I'm not exactly sure what happened or what we are now, but I'm numb about the whole thing. I feel lost and empty and I wish he was here so I could cry in his arms, but I don't love him. And he doesn't love me, which doesn't help. I think I need someone to love me, someone to throw his arms around me and tell me it's all going to be okay.

I'm a perpetual disaster. As soon as I get one part of me cleaned up, another falls apart.

Someone please hold me! Hold me so I can properly cry! I haven't been able to cry since before Nanny died! I have no outlets anymore, nowhere to put anything, and I feel like I'm whining every time I update livejournal. Maybe I should just make the whole stupid thing private... except that the whole point of this journal is to be a way for me to reach out and ask for help. So help!

Comments

[fieryminge.livejournal.com]

i love you seester!

next time you're in reno, we are so hanging out and i'll do whatever you need... girlfriendy and sisterish and all that.

*HUGS*

[oceantheorem.livejournal.com]

*HUGS* Thanks, Meg. I love you too. I think I'm going to be in Reno on Saturday but I don't know how much free time I have. I'm going mainly for the balloon races and to see Lyla (I haven't seen her in... six months? a year?).

Waffles....

[fieryminge.livejournal.com]

let me know... if we can, we can. if we can't, we can't. no worries. :)

waffles!

[oceantheorem.livejournal.com]

I will. I'll call you if I can steal a few hours.

[fieryminge.livejournal.com]

you make me stupid!

[steelwin.livejournal.com]

Light some candles and listen to Weezer. I really really wish I could buy you coffee.

[oceantheorem.livejournal.com]

Coffee would be really, really nice right now.

Maybe I'll go make some.

And candles sound good... thanks.

[antidwarf.livejournal.com]

I love you and wish I could be there! Hang in there, you're too good to take the first few guys who apply for the great job of being with you. BIG HUG

[oceantheorem.livejournal.com]

Thank you! I'm feeling a little better today after eating a TON of the jelly bellies you sent me a month ago. I have this little stash of candy and they've been sitting in there waiting for me to eat them. So today I gave in, and voila. Sugar rush straight to the brain makes Kara happy again.

I'm sorry about your crazy host mom! I can't wait to see pictures of your dive, though.

*HUG*

[thebirdnerd.livejournal.com]

Awwwww... I'm sorry gal, if I could teleport over there for you, I would!

*hugz*

[oceantheorem.livejournal.com]

Thanks. Support and kind thoughts mean so much!

*hugs*