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[oceantheorem]

I have reached that level of desperation. Yes, friends, I have started looking at my friends' friends' pictures on facebook to find hot single guys.

And I very nearly watched Dirty Dancing tonight. Close call, that. I'm in Romantic Desperation hell.

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[tryptonique.livejournal.com]

:)

Yeah...I prolly have seen DD more than 8 times. I just don't want to realistically guess how many...so I'm leaving it at around that number ;). The first time I saw it was when I was like 12 or 13. My mom got me into the soundtrack when I was like 5. :)

I dunno about Rocky. I haven't ever seen Rocky or any of the sequels so I don't know if they are any good. Obviously a ton of people think so...but then again...a ton of people overlooked First Blood because of how stupid and over the top the subsequent movies are. So who knows? If you get a chance and it is on t.v or somethin' (and you can see it from the beginning), I would give it a shot.


Oh you bum. Readin' everyone else's comments first! J/k. It makes sense to read them in order...and even though I was the second person to comment (if you look at the times by everyone's post), when other people start replying to other comments it bumps the whole LJ comment chain downwards. So it just looks like I was late to the game. Nyeh! *sticks out tongue.*

:)

Anywway...I'm not trying to tell you what to do, K-Rizzle. I'm also not trying to slap normative judgments on the table with respect to how you live your life. For you it MIGHT be A-Ok for you to focus on getting a dude. That may BE how you net your dream boy. Not all great romances happen 100% spontaneously. Sometimes people give fate a nudge, you know? Instead of trying to tell you what is good or bad or tell you what to do (which just makes you look like an ass, as I have realized in my approaching infinite wisdom...tee hee)...I think the easiest way to figure out what is right for you is to try to really dig deep down and look at the root causes of your own behavior in an honest fashion. Emotions are automatic responses that are like summarized versions of how our brain digests external situations/stimuli and internal stuff buried in our subconscious. Emotions are kind of like cliff notes to your life and your place in it at any given time. They really are only useful as study guides if you have read the source material. Otherwise you are just cheating yourself. Anyway, like I said...I'm sure you will do fine. My bets are on you, not the problem. :)

-E

[oceantheorem.livejournal.com]

Eh, I dunno whether I should or shouldn't focus on getting a guy. It seems like things will happen the way they will, whether I push them or not, so really it's just a matter of making myself happy in the process, y'know? I have a hard time not focusing on guys, I'm not sure why. Anyway. I've been optimistic since I left San Francisco, so I'm trying not to analyze things too much right now lest I screw up the happy mindset. :-P