1) I have a sneaking suspicion you are right. Btw...I just spent 2 weeks with Celi (the girlfriend of 2 years) over @ Smith during Spring Break. It was rad.I'm more of a soft silk person though (I don't mean that I wear the soft silk, but rather that I get someone ELSE to wear it...just making it clear so that way I wasn't the butt of teasing and jibes..ha ha). I imagine leather would get sticky if you got sweaty and would be rather confining. I think buckles and straps are a pain in the ass. Though softness makes me smile because it is super feminine (feminine = sexy in women...which is sort of a tautologous argument, but I'm willing to make it).
2) Lol. The inflicting pain thing is sort of creepy and disturbing to me. I hope you know that I'm 1000000% joking with that. I think you have to wonder about someone's sense of life if they hold pain to be a sexual value (sexual values being those that most deeply reflect who we are as people). Most people that are down with the freaky shite (scatology, S&M, etc) have either been abused or have had some trauma in their life that they are coping with- at least from what I have read on the subject.
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Re: If you like fantasy...
Date: 2005-04-13 05:52 pm (UTC)From:I imagine leather would get sticky if you got sweaty and would be rather confining. I think buckles and straps are a pain in the ass. Though softness makes me smile because it is super feminine (feminine = sexy in women...which is sort of a tautologous argument, but I'm willing to make it).
2) Lol. The inflicting pain thing is sort of creepy and disturbing to me. I hope you know that I'm 1000000% joking with that. I think you have to wonder about someone's sense of life if they hold pain to be a sexual value (sexual values being those that most deeply reflect who we are as people). Most people that are down with the freaky shite (scatology, S&M, etc) have either been abused or have had some trauma in their life that they are coping with- at least from what I have read on the subject.