I've learned so much (about you, about me) from reading your blog - about all your experiences, and what it's like to be a grad student. I know I've said what I'm about to say in other words before, but I'll recant one more time: I would give anything to be accepted to an Ivy League graduate program. I was rejected by the two I applied to this year, BUT I now understand that a name brand school will not make me happy, not cement future success in my endeavors, and not be the be-all, end-all life-defining experience in my life. I still think I'm good enough for grad school, and I'll do what it takes to get there.

Thank you, Kara...for being honest about your life. Just telling it like it is. I know I'm still a stranger an entire coast away...but your words mean a lot. I learn a lot from you.

What are we SUPPOSED to do? It's amazing that we actually feel that way; that we're SUPPOSED to be somewhere, SUPPOSED to be taking a particular path.

I think we'll both be okay. Someone as cool as you deserves "okayness" at the very least.